Suki

Hi, I am a mom of three beautiful children. The first a girl, Suki, who has a "sperm donor." My husband and I had a talk with him in 2010 about giving up his parental rights. He replied "I am her father!" and then we never saw him again. Go for being her father. She hasn't seen him in years. She doesn't know any of his family anymore since she was so young. For some reason this family thinks that by giving her birthday and Christmas gifts that shows that they still love her.  On Suki's birthday every year since the "disappearance" this "sperm donor" thinks its ok to trespass on my property to leave a gift never asking to see Suki. His family shows up on my doors and leaves presents without knocking to see her. Only one person in his family has decided he isn't getting any younger and has taken the charge to see her. He comes over and comes in to communicate with her. I will go in more detail with this a lot in this blog. Now since Baby R on my breast has finally found some zzzz I can go make lunch for Suki and Mr. Q.

A little history about Suki. Her "sperm donor" decided to suspend my dreams of becoming a police officer by being selfish and removing the condom during. He was also leaving to start an apprenticeship, which he fail miserably at, like most things he got involved with. Leaving me alone and pregnant to put the burden on my parents. My mother had to take care of me while on bed rest from 25 weeks. Taking care of  Suki and I after she was born. Then I tried to live with him for 5 months and yeah that didn't work. It was more important to go out until 3am or 4am then be home with a family. So thank God for the mistake I made to be with my wonderful family now. We will move on from that disaster. I never talk about things like this around Suki. When she is ready to ask why, I will be ready to tell her. Yes my grammar skills suck.

I met my wonderful husband we have been married for 4 years,  been together for 6 years. Suki and my husband have been together since she was one. We moved in together after 3 months which strengthened Suki and Luke's bond. Then we had Mr. Q and then Little R. Our family is big enough and we have taken care of the reproducing part of our family. Going from two to three children has been a challenge these past 7 weeks. The next post will be about parenting.